When I became a Professional Dominatrix at the starry-eyed age of 22 I thought I was looking ahead at a short but exhilarating job of make-believe. That job turned into a passionate mission and career. Now, more than a decade of personal & professional kinky explorations (including foot worship, latex catsuits, & a stable of full time submissives) has informed my personal growth and insight into the human psyche. The practical lessons I’ve learned in this exotic underworld are surprisingly universal when applied to relationships, personal growth & life’s challenges.